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real recovery support for real life

Supporting individuals and families who are tired of repeating the painful cycles surrounding substance use.

Why Ashes & Oil Exists

Recovery is not just about stopping a behavior — it’s about rebuilding a life.

Ashes & Oil Recovery Services was created to support individuals, families, and organizations navigating the complex realities of addiction, trauma, and healing. Too often, people struggling with addiction are met with stigma, judgment, or systems that fail to see the whole person behind the struggle.

Ashes & Oil was built on a different belief.

We believe recovery is possible for everyone. We believe people deserve compassionate support, practical tools, and guidance that meets them where they are — not where the world expects them to be.

Our work is rooted in real-world experience, trauma-informed care, and a deep understanding that healing is not a straight line. It is a journey of rebuilding trust, rediscovering identity, and creating a future that once felt impossible.

Whether we are supporting individuals in recovery, guiding families through complex dynamics, or partnering with organizations to build healthier systems, our mission is the same: to help people rise from what was and step into what’s possible.

How We Help

Ashes & Oil Recovery Services exists to bridge the gap between treatment, recovery, and real life.

Recovery does not happen in isolation. People need guidance, tools, accountability, and support systems that help them move forward long after the initial crisis has passed. Our work focuses on helping individuals and families build sustainable recovery and helping organizations respond to addiction with compassion and effectiveness.

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At Ashes & Oil, we recognize that recovery is not a one-size-fits-all process. Every person arrives with a different story, different challenges, and different strengths. Our approach focuses on meeting people where they are and helping them take practical steps toward stability, healing, and long-term growth.

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For individuals in recovery, this may mean learning how to rebuild daily structure, manage triggers, strengthen coping skills, and reconnect with purpose and identity. For families, it often involves education, communication tools, and support in learning how to walk alongside their loved one without losing themselves in the process.

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Ashes & Oil also partners with organizations, workplaces, and community groups to help them better understand addiction, reduce stigma, and create environments where recovery and healing are supported rather than judged.

Whether someone is at the beginning of their recovery journey, navigating relapse and setbacks, or trying to rebuild stability after treatment, our mission remains the same: to offer guidance, practical tools, and compassionate support that helps people move forward with dignity and hope.

OUR WORK INCLUDES

Individual Recovery Coaching

One-on-one guidance designed to help individuals navigate recovery, rebuild confidence, and create a clear path forward.

Family Support & Coaching

Addiction impacts the entire family. We provide education, coaching, and tools to help loved ones support recovery while maintaining healthy boundaries.

Recovery Navigation

Helping individuals and families understand treatment options, recovery pathways, and community resources so they can make informed decisions.

Organizational Training & Education

We partner with workplaces, schools, and community organizations to provide training on addiction awareness, stigma reduction, trauma-informed response, and overdose prevention.

Community Education & Advocacy

Ashes & Oil works to humanize addiction, reduce stigma, and strengthen recovery support in the community through speaking engagements, training, and outreach.

Core Values

Honesty

Accountability
Respect

We speak directly and compassionately about the realities of addiction and recovery.

Real change requires responsibility and consistent effort.

Every person deserves dignity regardless of their past.

Consistency
Compassion Without
Enabling
Forward Focus

Small daily actions build lasting stability.

We care deeply while maintaining healthy boundaries.

We help people move forward rather than staying stuck in the past.

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Meet the Founder

The Heart Behind Ashes & Oil

April N. Barksdale is a recovery advocate, coach, and community educator dedicated to helping individuals and families navigate the journey from crisis to stability.

April’s work is rooted in both professional experience and a deep understanding of the realities of addiction and recovery. Through her work in addiction treatment and community engagement, she has walked alongside individuals at some of the most vulnerable moments of their lives — helping them move from chaos and uncertainty toward hope and healing.

She has seen firsthand that recovery is not simply about stopping substance use. It is about rebuilding identity, restoring relationships, and learning how to live a meaningful life again. April created Ashes & Oil Recovery Services to bridge the gap between treatment and real life — providing guidance, support, and practical tools for people who are rebuilding their lives and for the families and communities who love them.

Her approach is grounded in telling the hard truths in compassion, accountability, and the belief that people are far more than the worst chapters of their story. At Ashes & Oil, the goal is simple: to help people rebuild their lives with dignity, support, and hope. Through years of work in addiction treatment and recovery support, April has helped individuals and families navigate some of the most difficult moments of their lives with compassion, honesty, and practical guidance.

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